Motherhood
Entering motherhood is often the most transformative time in a woman’s life. How do I preserve my own identity, needs, and passions while meeting all the needs of my family? How do I smoothly transition into all the different roles I play? Whether your kids are 3 months, 3 years, or 23 years old, this balance is an ever evolving central piece of motherhood that takes regular evaluation. Moms today have more input about their parenting than ever before, much of which contradicts itself. How do we know we’re doing it “right”? In therapy, your needs get full attention. I help moms maintain and expand their individuality, create strategies to prioritize their health, and learn to rest in spite of the fact that that list you have in your notes may never be fully checked off.
Postpartum Support
Whether you’re a first or fifth time mom, the postpartum period is a tender, precious, intense, challenging phase of life and motherhood. Your body has been through so much, and now your world revolves around caring for a tiny human who is entirely dependent on you. Many women feel pressure to be grateful and enjoy every minute because it “goes so fast”. While these sentiments may be true, they aren’t the full story. Postpartum can also feel lonely, exhausting, and entirely overwhelming at times. Not to mention the decision fatigue that many moms describe - is he hungry? Is this normal? How many naps should she be taking? He may be overtired…or undertired?? Maybe she has a tongue tie. Will I ever sleep again? And the list goes on.
It feels like you should have all the answers and like you shouldn’t be needing help. Let me be the first to say that you matter, this is hard, and you deserve to have the support you need. I believe that supporting a mother’s mental health in her postpartum period can make a fundamental difference in her motherhood journey, particularly if she is experiencing symptoms of postpartum depression, anxiety, or experienced birth trauma. Creating space to process your birth story is one of my passions (yes, even if it went exactly how you imagined!). I also work with moms who have grief over their breastfeeding journey. If breastfeeding is or was important to you and it hasn’t been what you imagined, it can be heartbreaking. This deserves attention and care. If any of this resonates with you, or you just don’t feel like yourself, I’m here to support you.
A quick note…
Many moms may be looking for resources in addition to therapy in their postpartum period (i.e. lactation consultants, occupational therapists, chiropractors, etc.), and finding resources can feel daunting. I have working relationships with many postpartum providers in the Orange County area for both moms and babies, and love connecting my clients with other providers I know and trust.